Question

My wife and I have a 6 1/2 month old daughter. She was on the pill before having our daughter. She started taking the pill sfter her six week check up but due to the side effects we are going to try using NFP. I am a strong supporter of NFP and believe it is God's will. She is a little worried about the effectiveness and concerned that with her irregular cycle it may be hard to use. Also she has not had a period since coming off the pill, almost 4 months now. Her doctor says that she should get an IUD, but that is not what we want to do. What are your suggestions?

Thank you.

Jeremy

Answer

Dear Jeremy,

Since the IUD can cause an abortion, I am sure that is not a choice for you. There is a saying: "The woman observes, the man supports, the couple uses". With use of NFP and your support her confidence will grow.

When my husband and I first started it took us only a few cycles before our confidence level was equal to our pill usage. NFP is just as effective as the contraceptive pill, without the medical side effects and is morally acceptable. In addition, it can be used with irregular cycle with great success. By seekimg a certified NFP instructor, attending the required classes and following the instructions to avoid a pregnancy, you will have the support necessary to develop your confidence.

May the Lord support you in this decision.

Winnie Neill

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